tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-39670738502318373122024-03-12T18:03:36.761-04:00No Stereotypes Here - Neurodiversity activist blogWelcome to the Autism Spectrum. We break stereotypes hereCorina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.comBlogger165125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-39173645349413031232022-10-31T13:05:00.007-04:002022-10-31T13:05:00.180-04:00Wibbly Wobbly Thoughts<p><i>I started writing this for ASDay 2021. I got mostly done and then lost my train of thought. Picking it again for ASDay 2022.</i></p><p>I keep trying to come up with something to write about, and I start down a good idea, and then get distracted or the inspiration fizzles out. Sometimes I feel despair, because a lot of the topics that come up are the same topics I've written about years ago. Sure, I could write about the exact circumstances of the issue, how it affects people. Use my hard-earned degree to form some sort of argument. But I also just want to write about other things. </p><p>I started to write an open letter to my government about how the pandemic has impacted me, specifically financially. It was going to be an anecdote to support the argument for Universal Basic Income. I was going to compare my life before the pandemic, and now, with how instead of worrying about support coming in from different areas with amounts that adjust from week to week, I can make financial decisions and be confident about being able to afford basic needs and make financial decisions about repairing or replacing items, about being able to take time off work when sick or injured. Because I'm currently on unemployment, and that pays more than ODSP and my job. </p><p>However, I also wanted to write about corsets, and history bounding. The other year, I wrote my thesis about accessibility at autism conferences, and then I went to a costuming convention where a lot of the attendees were disabled. 'If only I had known sooner,' I thought. 'Writing about disability in costuming would be fascinating!' </p><p>I got into corsets from a friend I met at an autism conference; they were wearing a corset and describing how it felt like a calming hug. A personalized weighted blanket. Over the years, I explored mass-produced corsets available online, and determined I needed to make my own. It would also be handy to wear to the LARP I had joined. And so, I dived into the world of historical sewing. </p><p>Which lead me to this convention and the realization that I don't really like modern clothing. The hems, the fabrics, the fit. It has been revolutionary for me to relearn sewing and attempt to sew my own clothing. Clothes should not feel like something to tolerate, but provide comfort and ease. If I must dress myself in clothing made from bed sheets in order to do so, then so be it.</p><p>And at the same time, I want to talk about stories. About how research can be used to tell stories. How research can be used to tell stories through data. There's a tendency to respond "well duh" to some studies, and I think that is a disservice to both the autistic community and researchers. Yes, we write stories and blog about issues. But studies take our stories and combine them. By combining our stories and codifying, it says "this isn't just a few people, this is a wider issue."</p><p>And I want to talk about my thesis, a learning experience I treasure. How it sparked for me an interest in research and the possibility of further studies. How I want to connect what I've spent all these years studying to my communities, as tools to our causes and needs.</p><p>I want to talk about my new kitten, Ezra, and the joy he gives me. Especially when he's being sweet and cuddly. </p><p>I want to talk about the sudden loss of spoons, the desire to do something but being unable to start or complete the action. The need to write something, anything, only to feel the spark fizzle out at an empty screen. The despair as idea piles upon idea, building up to an aching pressure.</p><p>I want to talk about pain. The sharp stabs and the deep aches that become constant companions. The pains that are temporary, the pains that are chronic, and the pains that very slowly heal. </p><p>And finally, I want to talk about perseverance. Whether through hope or spite, the importance of continuing on. To do what you can, when you can, however you do it. How I'm learning to forgive myself for taking time, as I forgive others. To recognize my own limits, as I recognize the same for others. To pause and rest when I need it, and to take my time recharging. To let myself fall apart. To let myself put myself back together at my own speed. </p><p>To let myself enjoy things. </p><p>And, when I'm ready, to write again. </p>Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-69543233301879080632020-11-02T01:27:00.004-05:002020-11-02T01:27:42.099-05:00A Small Thing<span style="font-family: georgia;">Nothing stays the same. Everything changes. </span><div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: georgia;">That's the opening for one of my attempts to write something today. It's a piece on depression. I got partway through trying to describe the deepest pits of despair and darkness, and then I realized I didn't really want to talk about that. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: georgia;">Even taking out politics, I think we've all had enough of that this year. Heck, enough of that for the past four years. </span></div><div><span style="font-family: georgia;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: georgia;">So, slight confession. I don't know exactly how anniversaries work and how they're calculated. I just know that on 15 October 2010, I wrote <a href="https://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.com/2010/10/real-communication-shutdown.html" style="color: #296695; text-decoration-line: none;">Real Communication Shutdown</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333;">, which was followed by </span><a href="https://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.com/2010/10/autistics-speaking-day.html" style="color: #32aaff; text-decoration-line: none;">Autistics Speaking Day</a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333;"> and </span><a href="https://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.com/2010/10/preparing-to-be-loud.html" style="color: #32aaff; text-decoration-line: none;">Preparing to be Loud</a><span style="color: #333333;"><span style="background-color: white;">. </span></span></span></div><div><br /></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">It is now 2020, and 11 years later. And I'm not sure whether the 10th anniversary was last year or this year. I'm not very good at these sorts of things. But I counted the years on a piece of paper, and according to my count, it's been eleven years. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">It definitely doesn't feel like yesterday. This year alone has felt too much like forever for it to be yesterday. But I'm reminded of both the changes and the similarities, both the good and the bad. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">There are the obvious things: I live in a different location. I dress differently, my hair has grown and I dye it a different colour. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">Family drama has come and gone and most like will come again. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">I've learned that my body is not quite as reliant as I thought it was, and the gears of capitalism is wearing it down. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">And countless other things, the painful, the joyful, the sorrow, and the wonder. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">Including, the fact that this is the year that I am finally finishing my Disability Studies degree. As I type, I am in my last elective course: creative writing. One might think I can get by with minimum effort, and then pass. But they would be wrong. There are some frustrating aspects about the course; there are a lot of readings that show great misunderstandings and misjudgment towards genre fiction. It's a widespread attitude throughout academia that makes studying creative writing typically difficult. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">However, I'm making my own challenges for the class, taking the assignments as they're given and putting my own twist to them. And the result is that I'm finding myself more encouraged to write more.</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">The last few months, I've been making more things, sewing, embroidering and crafting. It's been a sliver of silver lining, and I wish I could just stay home and <i>create</i>.</span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;">I know that there are still troubles ahead of us, and I hold onto the fact that writing gives joy. That making things makes me happy and gives me reasons to start my day. It might be a small thing, sometimes, but sometimes a small thing is all a person needs to keep going. </span></span></div><div><span style="color: #333333; font-family: georgia;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span></div><div>And sometimes, a small thing becomes a big thing, and lasts for years. </div><div><br /></div><div>Here's to making things. Here's to the small things. Here's to the big things. Here's to the things that just make us happy in these dark times. Let them keep us together. </div>Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-86665346683774839652019-02-06T15:34:00.000-05:002019-02-06T15:34:04.680-05:00Open Letter: Autism Services and Direct Funding<div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.38; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span></span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">Parents have a right to know that ABA is under scrutiny by current autism research for its possible contribution to the high rates of mental health issues in autistic people, and that studies arguing for its efficiency do not look at the long term effects. Parents have a right to know that alternatives exist, and we are concerned that there needs to be resources and information available for them to make those decisions.</span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: 400; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The International Society For Autism Research is having its annual meeting in Montreal this May. I know that myself, researchers, and other attendees would appreciate if autism research regarding practical supports and services would be put into direct funding policy to positively affect the lives of autistic Ontarians. I have no position of authority to invite members of government, members of the press, parents, or any other interested persons to the annual meeting, but I highly recommend doing what myself and other autistic people do; talk with researchers and pay attention to what has been discovered in relation to the narratives of autistic adults and autism research.</span></span></div>
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-87123871420978659172017-11-02T00:44:00.001-04:002017-11-02T00:44:36.258-04:00For ASDay 2017 and Ever AfterI didn't think I was going to write something this year.<br />
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I have two works in progress waiting for me to finish, after all. A piece on how jokes can be harmful, especially when IEPs and disability are thrown in, and an open letter to Simon Baron-Cohen about how he's completely ignorant on neurodiversity when he tried to write about it in a recent article.<br /><br />These are pieces that are so close to being completed. And like a lot of my work, I'm not sure how to conclude them. How do I tell when something is finally done? How do I wrap it up?<br />
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It's a problem I have with my writing, it's a problem I have with a lot of projects. I wonder if it's going to be a problem I'll have with ASDay. I hope one day I'll be able to say "okay, it's been a good run. We did what we set out to do. We're no longer needed," and pack it all up.<br />
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And while I think 2017 has been a bit of a slow year, for various reasons, I don't think this is the year that happens.<br />
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It may be the year I spent the night before hanging out with a friend having a mental health crisis. It may be the year I spent the evening beforehand at work on a retail shift wearing inappropriate shoes because I was in costume and totally regret it (always, ALWAYS wear appropriate work shoes, even if it doesn't go with your costume). It may be the year I only got 5 hours sleep and dashed out the door to a doctor's appointment.<br />
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It may be the year my doctor told me to stop doing everything that I love, to stop typing, to stop writing, to stop all my hobbies and restrict all my leisure pursuits. It may be the year that I promptly ignored my doctor's advice and spent over twelve hours on the internet, doing what I love.<br />
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Because ASDay is still needed. Because someone sent in a 20-page essay on neurodiversity as philosophy theory. Because we're still fighting for AAC to be considered a language in its own right. Because I can't count how many people send in self-discovery stories. Because autistic people are still demanding our rights, demanding to be heard.<br />
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And we're not going away.<br />
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So, for this ASDay, and the next one, and as many as it takes, here I am.Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-73025414495566494212017-04-15T00:56:00.000-04:002017-04-15T01:02:09.156-04:00To Temple Grandin, an Open LetterTo Temple Grandin,<br />
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You need to stop now. Stop talking about autism, about autistic people. Stop pretending to know about people whom you don't even interact with, whom you have shown nothing but disdain for.<br />
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When you started going to autism conferences and doing the talks, it was a big thing. I'll give you that. You were part of the beginning of autistic voices demanding to be heard, to be taken seriously by professionals and researchers and parents. It feels good to be making a difference, doesn't it?<br />
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But you're no longer making a difference; now you're harming people with what you're saying. So you need to stop.<br />
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What have you said? You've said that autistic people need to "get [our] butts out of the house and get a job." You've only deigned to pay attention to "high functioning" people who not only have jobs, but "careers." <span style="font-family: "oswald";">This ignores the fact that for many autistic people, there are systematic and environmental barriers in place that prevents us from getting jobs, never mind leaving the house. This ignores the fact that even if autistic people had the training and skills to look for work, the economies in many countries make it increasingly difficult for disabled people of many types to look and gain employment. This ignores the huge amount of depression and PTSD present in the autistic population, which does impact whether someone can work. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "oswald";">This ignores that someone's worth isn't based on whether one can work. On whether someone can talk, on what skills or talents a person has. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "oswald";">In other words, Temple Grandin, you are being ableist, to other autistic people and other disabilities. You speak from a place of unchecked white privilege, without knowing about the lives or truly interacting with other autistic people, yet you try to speak for us. Your words are taken on as gospel by parents and professionals, but in truth, you know nothing about us. And you need to stop, right now. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "oswald";">Signed, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "oswald";">~Corina Becker </span></div>
Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-16782048428908838432017-04-04T00:24:00.002-04:002017-04-04T00:24:47.815-04:00Lindt and Autism Speaks No MoreI heard through Tumblr and Twitter that Lindt doesn't support Autism $peaks anymore. So last Wednesday and Thursday, I messaged the Lindt Facebook account to confirmation.<br />
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The conversation went like this:<br />
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Me "Hi, I was wondering whether you support Autism Speaks or Autism Speaks Canada?<br />
either through the sale of the bunnies or as a corporate sponsor?"<br />
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Lindt "Hi Corina, Lindt Canada does not currently support Autism Speaks."<br />
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Me "What about Lindt USA? Does it support Autism Speaks USA? Thank you for your response early"<br />
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Lindt "Hi Corina, Lindt USA is not partnering with Autism Speaks USA."<br />
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Me "Okay, thank you. Then you should know that Autism Speaks USA still list Lindt as a corporate sponsor. Lindt is not a corporate sponsor?"<br />
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Lindt "Hi Corina, Thank you very much for letting us know that our logo is still on their site. We've advised our USA team to get in touch to have our logo removed since they are not a corporate sponsor.<br />
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Me "okay, thank you and you're welcome"Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-39104891763719379852016-10-31T18:05:00.000-04:002016-11-01T00:04:53.553-04:00An October Day<i>A piece of creative non-fiction, as well as some photos, as a submission for ASDay. </i><br />
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There are dishes piling up in the sink, a folding crate full of recycling by the door. In my room, a laundry basket overflows as it waits for me to take it to my parents for washing. I've just taken down a large garbage bag to be thrown out on my way out the door. I spent $20 of my last $35 on cat food; payday is another week away, but I think I can get by on instant noodles and frozen veggies. There's some meat in the freezer, but I might have to spend my last ten dollars to buy meat for a few days.<br />
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I was going to do chores yesterday, was going to paint yesterday, work on an assignment. However, I woke up with rain outside my window and pain pounding at my temples. A can of cola and a fist of painkillers later, the pain receded, but I was left woozy and scatterbrained. My main focus last night was to get actual food in me, which I more or less succeeded.<br />
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Right now, it's still raining, but my head isn't aching. Sleepily, I had contacted my workplace to double check on my schedule for tonight, only to be told I'm off for the weekend.<br />
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I hear children racing down the hall. I only hear my neighbours when I'm in the hall, or when they drop something overhead, or if the windows are open. Or if one of their dogs is barking and barking and barking. I generally don't worry about the sounds I make, only when it's 3 AM and I wonder about the volume on my TV. It's peacefully quiet right now. No sounds above, below or from the sides, only the drizzle from window. That's not even a lot, since it's too cold to have it open more than a crack.<br />
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What I do hear is the elevator running, the hum of my refrigerator, the kettle on my stove. I pour myself a cup of tea and let it seep, wearily eyeing my cupboards. It's after 4 PM, and I've gotten out of bed some hours ago, but haven't eaten anything yet. I've had a shower, and haven't eaten yet. Putting on gloves, I wash a bowl and peel a potato. Usually I just scrub the potato, but the skin makes it crispy. As the potato cooks in the microwave, I stir sugar and milk into my tea.<br />
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Maybe later tonight, I'll have some of the fish in my freezer, make a bit of pasta, microwave the leftover veggies in my fridge. But right now, I'm having a potato with a bit of butter and a cup of tea. Last night, in bed, I drafted out some of what I wanted to write. It was too late to pick up my tablet or the pad of paper on my night-stand; I was curled up with my cat, huddled together as I try to cover her with my blanket against the cold. I'm still hesitant to turn on the heater, even though it's almost November. So I lay there and dreamt up words for when I woke.<br />
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And now, with warmth in my belly and in my hands, I sit down to write. <br />
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<br />Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-47253868985967079802016-10-14T16:45:00.000-04:002016-10-14T16:45:13.676-04:00Words are WordsTo Autism Speaks,<br />
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I've noticed you've made some words changes on your mission statement lately. You've replaced "cure" with "solutions" and included "acceptance". Some people are calling this a big shift for your organization, myself and many other autistic people don't think so.<br />
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While I have no doubt that you aim to stop the autistic people boycotting you and your sponsors, this is not the only change that needs to happen. For us to accept that you truly are changing, there needs to be more than just words. There needs to be actions as well. <br />
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There needs to be systematic changes to how your organization is structured, how it is run, in the decisions it makes, in how it spends its money.<br />
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In short, these are just words; what do your actions say?<br />
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How I can believe that you're making changes, when you still support ABA as a treatment? When you support research looking into autism and immune systems? When your organization still doesn't have autistic people in decision making positions? When you've pretty much not made any other changes? When you haven't apologized for the way you've demonized us, treat us as tragedies, cite inaccurate statistics about us? When I still see first-person language used, I can still see medicalization in your information about us, despite so many of us demanding that you do otherwise? When you otherwise ignore autistic people and fail in so many ways to support us?<br />
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You want to change? Show us you can actually change. Until then, we're not falling for your superficial gloss over, your charade. You're not actually supporting us, you're not actually listening to us, and until there is fundamental changes, you never will.Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-12318383829061398022016-06-28T13:59:00.000-04:002016-06-28T13:59:04.017-04:00Toronto Star Interview on ABA/IBIBack in April, I was approached by a colleague of mine on Twitter about being interviewed by a reporter for the Toronto Star. The story was about the recent changes to Ontario funding to ABA/IBI. If you aren't aware, Ontario just stopped direct funding for ABA/IBI for over the age of 5 years old, with something of a hazy declaration for more funding to other therapies and supports.<br />
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Which, pro-ABA/IBI people don't like, cause the parents have been told that this is the only thing that works, and the professionals, well, they have an industry, even if they mean well, it's an industry that causes harm.<br />
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Anyways, the reporter of the article was looking for autistic points of view, and found me. I prefer email interviews, which has upsides and downsides. Downside, no nice sound-clips to put on the radio. Upside, despite only having a couple of my sentences actually used in the article, I have the entire email interview to post. <br />
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I understand that the reporter may not have had complete control of the editing process; pictures and stories of children sure are more appealing than those of a 31-year old autistic woman, after all. But I like being fully represented, signed no documents to keep the interview quiet, and so I retain my rights to publicize my side of the interview. <br />
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So. <a href="https://www.thestar.com/life/health_wellness/2016/06/05/uproar-over-new-age-cap-for-autism-treatment-reflects-frustration-about-ontarios-whole-system.html" target="_blank">Here is the article that was published by the Toronto Star. </a><br />
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And here is the complete interview that I gave them:<br />
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1) In Canada, there has been a silencing of autistic narratives. It’s subtle, but it’s there. It can be seen with how there are barely any services for autistic adults, for autistic women. It can be felt with our absence in discussions about our lives, our past, present, and future. But autistic people notice it acutely, as this absence affects our lives, in the supports we receive, in how organizations and support staff treat us. And the only real cure for this is for us to a part of those discussions, part of the decisions made by support organizations and provincial committees, to have our voices and narratives be included in all the ways that affect our lives. To put it simply, I am a Canadian citizen, myself and other autistic people want to be part of the process in shaping our futures in our nation.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Calibri, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do you have an opinion about ABA principles or IBI, and the belief expressed by many parents that their children's futures depend on intensive behavioural intervention? </span></div>
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2) There are two problems with ABA and IBI; that it is the best chance for an autistic person’s future, despite a lack of scientific and ethically sound evidence, and that ABA/IBI principles are based on wrong assumptions regarding behaviour and autistic people. ABA/IBI is based on behaviourism, which states that if you change a person’s outward behaviour, you change how a person thinks. It was this same premise that created gay conversion therapy, also by the creator of ABA/IBI, Ivar Lovaas. We no longer think of autism as a mental illness, knowing that it is neurological wiring, how our brains work, but the premise of behavourism still remains in ABA/IBI. Thus, ABA/IBI doesn’t really teach life skills, or offers the best hope for an autistic person’s future, but teaches that our behaviour, our way of thinking and acting, is wrong and must be eliminated, often with a lot of traumatic stress. The accounts of autistic survivors account for a large percent of PTSD caused by ABA/IBI therapy throughout their lives, and the fact that these narratives are ignored does a huge injustice for the survivors, present autistic children, and future autistic people.</div>
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But autistic children are given poor prognosis, with claims that ABA/IBI is the only chance they have, when, quite frankly, this just isn’t true. So the decision about ABA/IBI in Ontario has mixed results; a decrease in focus on ABA/IBI, and some encouragement to look into other supports and approaches for autistic people.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Calibri, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What are your thoughts on what the provincial government's priority should be when it comes to meeting the needs of children with autism and their families? Can you talk about your own experiences -- what supports you think were most important as a child, and what would have helped that you didn't receive?</span></div>
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3) (tying in a little from above) What the provincial government’s priority, and all service providers, need to do is look into services beyond ABA/IBI. It does not help that a lot of current research is into what causes autism, and few little is researching what helps us throughout our lives. Listening to what autistic adults say about what services we need as adults is one of the steps to providing supports for autistic teens, children, and elders. I would like to see more supports for non-verbal communication, in conjunction with mental health and emergency services, as well as dealing with issues about racism, violence against women, and poverty, as a start. Ideally, the supports we receive as children should transition with us into adolescence, adulthood, and into old age. Yet, there are hardly if any services for adults, and they do not support the full range of abilities and impairments that autistic people have.</div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Calibri, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do you have suggestions on how to better include the voices of Ontario people with autism on this particular topic and in media stories? When we're talking about the specifics of IBI this can be challenging, as older teens and young adults who have experienced the therapy aren't always able to recall the experience or express how it affected them</span></div>
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4) When talking about autism, parents and professionals are usually the ones taking the stage right now. However, I think there is a huge disservice by not including the voices of autistic people, in government decisions. Parents, professionals, and other caregivers want what’s best for their children, whether age they might be, but it is autistic adults who can say “this was harmful for me, these other supports are more appropriate” or “making these changes to a classroom would have helped me”, because we’re the ones with direct experience. It just makes sense to ask willing autistic people for advice on what needs to change in policy and practices. And for this to happen, people also need to be open to various styles in which someone’s narrative is expressed, not so much dependency on speaking, but valuing other methods of communication. </div>
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-12638916196788385832016-04-02T12:00:00.000-04:002016-04-07T06:06:15.322-04:00Today We FightTaking a look at my archives , I've been blogging for quite a while. I started this blog in what, 2009? And I know that I had been lurking around the autism web since 2005. I remember having conversations with people about whether or not to blog under an alias or a real name. The short form is that while an alias provides more privacy, a real name grants more authenticity and authority. <br />
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Which is nonsense. This, and the practice of having to write up disclaimers saying, basically, "this is just our own individual opinions" is utter nonsense. As if what we have to say, as individuals, has to be pointed out. For any majority group, this would be assumed, with the language we use, with the fact that it's not an organization's official blog, any of that. It is an attack on minority groups, on protesting activism groups, to demand that autistic people disclaim own words. It is telling us that we are not like their children, we couldn't possibly relate to their children, so even our opinions can be ignored because they just represent us. </div>
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It is a subtle attack of violence and oppression. It is a pin-prick compared to the slaps and stabs that it foreshadows, cummulating in the mass acceptances that our lives are not worth living, that we cannot have a say in even if we live and whether we are better off dead. </div>
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I have been doing this blogging thing for a while. I have seen a lot of the same stuff come by, over and over. It can be wearing, trying to respond to it all, as if it were fresh and new. Saying the same things, again and again. </div>
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We have made some progress. I believe we have. It has not been perfect progress, it is not enough. There just has been some progress made. </div>
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It doesn't feel like much, sometimes. Especially when March 1st comes around and we read off the ever growing lists of our dead, murdered. Our progress was not enough to save them. Each of their deaths is a slap, a reminder that it could have been any of us. </div>
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But they haven't killed us yet. So we remembered our dead, so that one day, there will be no more names to add to the list. Today, during April and beyond, we fight like hell for the living. </div>
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We fight for our right to represent ourselves, to make decisions in our own lives.<br />
We fight for our right to affordable housing, for the right and access to jobs that make more than sub-minimal wage, to make a living and pay for our own rent, our bills, without living in poverty.<br />
We fight for the right to live our lives, to communicate however we can, to live at any and all abilities and limitations.<br />
We fight for support systems across the lifespan, for mental health series that access meet our needs, for non-verbal crisis support, for accessible shelters from abuse and violence.<br />
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We fight for the simple right to be human, to be included in human rights. <br />
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We don't need to prove anything to exist. We are enough as we are. Any changes in our lives, from the smallest detail to the largest of decisions, is our choice, our say. We exist, we are human. </div>
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It seems like common sense, but it's something that apparently we have to continue saying. And I'm not just saying this for myself, but for all of my autistic siblings, of all ages, of all abilities, wherever in the world they might be. For autistic people currently living, and those whose lives are yet to start.<br />
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We are not alone, and together, we will fight.<br />
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The following is a list of posts I've made over the years. They aren't all perfect; I've grown and learned over that time. Some of the wording, particular phrases, that I've used before, are not what I would write now. However, I think that these articles, from the past, in the present, and towards the future, communicate a lot of what autistic people this month have been fighting for.<br />
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<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2012/04/where-are-autistics-or-why-i-not-going.html" target="_blank">Where are the autistics? (2012)</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2013/04/whats-point-of-world-autism-awareness.html" target="_blank">What's the Point of World Autism Awareness? (2013)</a><br />
<a href="http://blogs.plos.org/neurotribes/2010/10/31/corina-becker-communication-shutdown-for-autism-awareness-no-thanks/" target="_blank">25 Things I Know as an Autistic Person (2010)</a><br />
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<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2010/07/what-i-want-people-to-know.html" target="_blank">What I Want People to Know (2010)</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2011/09/why-retard-is-hate-crime.html" target="_blank">Why "Retard" is a Hate Crime (2011)</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/10/blogging-as-communication.html" target="_blank">Blogging as Communication (2009)</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/08/on-neurodiversity.html" target="_blank">On Neurodiversity (2009)</a><br />
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<a href="http://autismwomensnetwork.org/static-bubbles-the-myths-of-functioning-labels/" target="_blank">Static Bubbles: The Myth of Functioning Labels (2011)</a><br />
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<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/10/spoons-batteries-and-autism.html" target="_blank">Spoons, Batteries and Autism (2009)</a><br />
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<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/08/real-autism-awareness.html" target="_blank">Real Autism Awareness</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/08/speaking-is-not-communication-autism.html" target="_blank">Speaking is not Communication</a><br />
<a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/08/lets-talk-neurodiversity.html" target="_blank">Let's Talk Neurodiversity</a><br />
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-79911232819776509992016-03-02T10:35:00.001-05:002016-03-02T10:35:46.387-05:00ASA Keynote 2016It was a few years ago that I attended the ASA national conference as a presenter. For me, it was an interesting experience to meet people I had met online, to really get a feeling for the state of things. I came home a little queasy. <div><br></div><div>Yes, there were social badges, yes there was a sensory room. But only a few of the vendors understood what it meant, and the sensory room was kinda far away from the rest of the conference. Sure, you want to make sure there's quiet for the room, but when I'm spending what little resources I have just to get there and back, it's not really worth it. </div><div><br></div><div>Even as my autistic peers and I passed around curebie bingo cards and filled them in rather quickly, I was optimistic; it had to be better than it used to be, right? It's not the huge sweeping changes we want, but these things take time, right? Surely they're working to be better. </div><div><br></div><div>Alas, I fear I was hopelessly optimistic. Yesterday, as the autistic and disability communities were observing the Disability Day of Mourning, ASA sent out emails about the upcoming conference, announcing their keynote speaker. </div><div><br></div><div>This is not how a community, how an organization moves forward to include and respect autistic people. It shows not only in decisions regarding treating individual situations, but also widespread decisions on who you honour as major speakers, who you give a platform to. </div><div><br></div><div>Instead of choosing any number of qualifying autistic people, ASA decided to have the writers of In A Different Key as keynote speaker. </div><div><br></div><div>Given the way these writers fail to do basic fact checking for their book, the harmful attitudes towards autistic people, the sympathizing with murderers and abusers of autistic people, I really do not see how this can be seen as anything but representative of how ASA views actually autistic people. </div><div><br></div><div>It's disgraceful and hurtful for an organization that is so prominent to highlight and uphold violence against the people they are supposed to be supporting. It is damaging and it is endangering autistic lives. </div><div><br></div><div>No more. </div><div><br></div><div>Stop killing us!!!</div>Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-38283437339175744682015-09-12T17:18:00.000-04:002015-09-12T17:18:06.266-04:00Social Assistance, Poverty, and the Cost of LivingI've written about Disability and poverty before. And now we're getting in to the election season here in Canada again, so it's a topic that's coming up. <br />
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as someone who has lived on OW/ODSP:</div>
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housing: geared to income shared housing is the ONLY thing you're going to be able to afford on the under $500/month that these programs give you</div>
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yes, that does not work with some people's mental needs, sucks to be them (and if I had enough money to change that, I would)</div>
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Transportation: $141/month? so not happening.</div>
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if you're not working, you probably can limit your bus trips to once/week and budget accordingly. yes, if you're disabled but the government hasn't admitted it yet, you're kind of screwed 'cause you won't be able to get your laundry AND groceries AND appointments all in that day</div>
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if working, you probably want to get a discounted bus pass (yes, Kingston, and hopefully other cities do give a discounted monthly bus pass to low-income persons. I advise you/your workers look into this)</div>
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Groceries: I manage to get groceries for about $200/month (or at least I spent $200.14 on all food in the month of May 2015)</div>
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tips: things like the <a class="profileLink" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/page.php?id=379111032219356" href="https://www.facebook.com/goodfoodboxkingston" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Good Food Box Kingston</a> are your friend; cooking big batches and and freezing the leftovers is your friend; lentils, beans, pork and potatoes are your friends; pasta and rice are your friends; buying in bulk as much as possible is your friend; if you will eat sausages/baloney/hot dogs/liver/tongue etc, they are your friend; dairy, fresh/frozen fish, high quality cheese, chocolate/candy and soda pop are your enemies, buy as few as possible of those (though do get yourself some single serving yogurts and either sour cream/ice cream/cheap cheese so you aren't missing out on calcium etc), also avoid any beverages but water, tea/coffee, water w/ flavouring</div>
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if you are on OW, you CANNOT afford to eat out unless it is at a soup kitchen, you will NEED a soup kitchen (and yes it sucks), and you may need the food bank. If you do not take advantage of these services, YOU WILL GO INTO DEBT. You do not have enough money to AFFORD to go into debt. USE THE FRICKEN SOUP KITCHENS/FOOD BANK.</div>
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Entertainment and Dining Out:</div>
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if you are on OW: FREE THINGS. do ALL OF THE FREE THINGS. let yourself have about $10 (aka ONE film/cheap eating out) PER MONTH to keep yourself from going crazy</div>
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yes, you will go into debt that way. do it anyway</div>
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ODSP: you can eat out two or three times a month if you keep it at or under $12 per time... you are allowed to substitute a film or show for one or more of these. if you are careful, you can do ONE convention/holiday where you pool money w/ others/stay w/ friends PER YEAR. Choose wisely, set your budget ahead and save $20/month ish towards that.</div>
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Drinks: Alcolhol is not worth it on either OW or ODSP. it is far to expensive for the joy it gives you. If a friend is buying you alcolhol that is ok, don't buy it yourself.</div>
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Health and Fitness: the gym is not worth it for the money you have, especially since you can do things like walk every day, run, bicycle (buy a SECOND-HAND bike for $40 ish at a police auction), skate (Play It Again Sports is your friend for reasonably priced skates, find outdoor/free rinks in winter or even cheap skates through local rinks) or swim (yes, A half-decent swimsuit, cheap towel/bag are worth the investment, as is the cheapest swimming place in town)</div>
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if you are on OW: depending on if there is water nearby, you may be able to swim w/ friends for free, if there are no ponds/rivers/lakes, consider any funds you spend on swimming/skating as part of your ~ $10/month entertainment fund</div>
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parks often have skating rinks set up for free in the winter</div>
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Walking/running/biking are your friends</div>
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does all of this seem unreasonably hard?</div>
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THAT IS THE POINT OF THIS WRITING.</div>
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If you have the energy, GET INVOLVED IN POLITICS and lobby for HIGHER tax rates for corporations, LESS of a wage gap and MORE money for those on ODSP/OW (or even a GUARANTEED MINIMUM INCOME that will let someone survive, if slightly uncomfortably).</div>
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I spend $5/year on NDP* membership, because, from what I can tell, they most support those of us who are low/no income.</div>
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Greens and Liberals aren't bad choices either.</div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But apparently, that's all we young people are doing these days, lounging around our excellent downtown apartments, cooking all the meals, taking each other out on dates, and drinking in excess. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Right... I'm sorry, isn't there a recession going on? Isn't there something like only a 5% job growth for most parts of our country? Don't our older generation complain that we're living at home and not doing anything? Maybe cause we don't have jobs and don't have money to do any of this shit???? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Oh, and of course, how many of us are on ODSP/OW? You know, living below the poverty line? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Yeah, fuck this shit, let's all get out there and vote. </span></div>
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-51175362929942414072015-08-29T15:57:00.000-04:002015-08-29T15:57:06.546-04:00NeuroTribes ReviewA couple of months back, I was sent an email asking whether I wanted a free copy of Steve Silberman's NeuroTribes. Being something of a book hoarder, I really couldn't refuse. I've been looking forward to reading this book since I've heard of it coming out, and offered to write a review. So, for the sake of transparency, all I've gotten out of this is a free book and a voluntary obligation to write a review.<br />
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Cause I want to talk about this book. I really want to talk about this book. This book deserves to be talked about.<br />
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I got my copy, oh, a week or so back, I think. Early August. (Yeah, I'm bad on time) It took me some time to work up the nerve to open it, and then it took me longer than I expected to read it. It is a subtly and surprisingly packed narrative written in and around various mini-biographies, following a single thread throughout history: the diagnosis of Autism as we know it. <br />
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I feel like there was a lot of material that Silberman has been working through, and chose his words with care to say the most, to show instead of tell. It is a rich weaving of history, some of it painful and dark, and does not shy away from that. Some of this I knew about beforehand, as part of my own experiences researching and being a part of Autism history, and some of it I could only guess. I know that for those who are not prepared, it can be very disturbing. Even prepared, the stories shared in NeuroTribes can be disturbing. <br />
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Silberman covers a lot in the pages, including treatments used on us, the theories prescribed about us, and how there is this fight to recognize autistic people, all autistic people, as autistic. Complete with how such things like a diagnosis impacts individuals, and a glimpse into the beginnings of autistic culture, both before and after the advent of the Internet.<br />
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But this is our history. And this is probably not the last book on Autism history, but is only a part of our past. No, as I'm sure many of my community will agree with me, it is not complete. This is a slice of where we've been, condensed into a nearly 500-page book (the epilogue ends at page 477). That couldn't have been easy. Especially since I know there is a lot more material that Silberman has from writing NeuroTribes, waiting to written and shared with the world.<br />
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Most importantly, there are parts that I didn't know about, new information about our history, indications and answers to that ever so annoying question "where are the autistic adults?" As Silberman shows, we have always been here, in the past, in the present, and in the future. After all, some of those incomplete chapters, aren't we still writing those?<br />
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Let's go make the next volume of Autism history!<br />
<br />Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-25829149820633517872015-02-22T20:23:00.001-05:002015-02-22T20:23:14.209-05:00Hair AutonomyRecently, I've started to cut my hair. Doesn't sound all that impressive, does it? Well, at first it was just trimming the back of my neck, doing my own bangs, you know, little touch ups here and there. The bangs thing was fairly regular enough that I bought my own pair of sheers because I found that hair dressers, no matter how nice, and they make awesome efforts at this, never quite get what I'm trying to describe how I want my hair. <br />
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The pictures of my hair like this, got comments about it being art. Which I suppose is a way of looking at it I haven't considered. But the more I think about it, the more I like the idea of my photographs as an art. After all, it's documenting my journey, and various learning about cutting one's own hair, towards self-expression. </div>
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I don't really see it as any different than when I compose and post images of my medications for the day, my dermatillomania scars, my migraine updates; I see it as sharing not only who I am, but my life and what I go through, and how I share, with friends, family, and yes, the public. As long as I am willing, and I control the lens, I don't see the problem with it. </div>
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One, I think about how a lot of the questions I get when meeting casual acquaintances is centered on "why"; they want to know why I cut my hair in such a style. The most negative comments (from family, I might add) expresses concern that I'll be judged badly, or that I'll regret it (it's hair, it'll grow back), or that it'll be ugly. </div>
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I usually don't care about physical appearances too much, but I can't help but think that their concerns and negative attitudes is based on a rather limited view of beauty. And an ugly view on society too. So far, I've yet to be treated badly for my hair. Could it be that people see my hair as only a small apart of my appearance? There is the possibility that people have made assumptions about my lack of hair and my health, or that my various intersections of privilege has shielded me. But why can't this be beauty? </div>
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I know I'm late running for ASDay 2014, but I have most things in order!<br />
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For one, <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1fUyFcy5BLn2j-fjAugSf3at2563k11iJlkBWGBltnkk/viewform" target="_blank">the submission form is now open and ready to take submissions</a>. And <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/1480940645505065/?ref=22" target="_blank">the Facebook event page is online</a>.<br />
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I know it's only about a week until Nov 1st, but let's have a great day!!Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-79718270326852650472014-10-21T00:35:00.000-04:002014-10-21T16:59:06.291-04:00Citizen Autistic<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I unfortunately missed the great crowd sourcing campaign for the documentary "Citizen Autistic" (William Davenport, 2014), released this month. However, I was just contacted by Cinema Libre Studio with <a href="http://cinemalibrestudio.com/clsblog/2014/10/09/a-documentary-investigation-into-the-autistic-self-advocacy-movement/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-documentary-investigation-into-the-autistic-self-advocacy-movement" target="_blank">their press release</a> and a chance for an early online viewing to review. How could I say no? </span><br />
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Now, my review isn't going to be unbiased. I'm an autistic activist who works alongside and has met a good number of the people interviewed in the film. I sort of have a vested interest, even though I'm in Canada and most of the specifics take place in the United States. However, I do believe that there is an international effect to greater disability rights, and to Autistic rights, and so this film is part of that dialogue. </span><br />
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At about 60 minutes long, "Citizen Autistic" is rather brief, and of course, not going to cover in complete detail every and all issues in the Autistic rights movement. It does cover some of the current contenders. </span><br />
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It opens appropriately with the National Day of Mourning in Washington, D.C., and goes on to cover the Judge Rotenberg Center, Autism Speaks, and the discourse between parents and autistic adults in advocacy work. </span><br />
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Some points are also brought up are the similarities between the autism rights movement and gay rights movement, as well as bringing our rights into the greater disability rights movement, as well as how the Autistic community could possibly look towards Deaf culture and community as a model of operations. I liked how autistic people interviewed presented different views, various perspectives regarding the rights models, but otherwise pretty much agreeing that this is an issue of human rights. </span><br />
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Points about parents and autistic adults were covered with AASCEND, which was a very interesting piece to watch, and definitely frames the question of how the so-called conflict and division as very much a question of government funding, as well as a matter of being allies without taking over the movement. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">But I watch this, and I nod along, because I see my community, I see my fellows represented, I see our <i>voices</i> represented, and I have hope. I have hope that this is just the start of our representation. </span><br />
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I'm getting ready for ASDay 2014. It's on a Saturday this year, and I wanted to let people prepare in advance, to think about what they're going to do. </div>
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At the same time, there is something I think that is important that may or may not appeal to participants. But this is really important. I know that ASDay matters to a lot of you because it gathers many voices in a large event, as well as other reasons, but I'd like to take the opportunity to address another opportunity coming up soon that people may want to concentrate working on. </div>
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I'm going to have to disclose, of course, as I am Vice-President of the Autism Women's Network. But AWN is working to publish an anthology on Autism and Race, and is looking for submissions, due November 14, 2014. If you are autistic, and a person of colour, racialized, or non-white, I encourage you to look at the <a href="http://autismwomensnetwork.org/autism-race-anthology/" target="_blank">AWN submission guide and consider submitting something. </a></div>
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This is a project lead by Lydia Brown, aka <a href="http://www.autistichoya.com/" target="_blank">Autistic Hoya,</a> who I don't know about you, but is one of the people I'd immediately ask "how much do you want me to write, and when do you want it?" if not go scrambling to look for something I've already written. </div>
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What matters is you expressing yourself, your story, what you want to say about yourself as an autistic person and your life, what you want to tell other people, what you want to change about the world. This is about you communicating and gaining power through that, about providing an outlet, a starting point. </div>
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ASDay has been described as a blogging carnival, a festival of our "voices", our passions and dreams. It is a celebration of who we are, a memorial of our scars, a scream of our struggles, a rallying cry to continue on for our rights. Because of the most powerful words "I am not alone". </div>
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The anthology matters because for too long has books and Autism materials about us been dominated by parents, professionals, and white people who do not represent all experiences of autistic people. I see it every time I walk into an Autism conference center and look at the book displays. How can we be "Nothing About Us, Without Us" without all of us being published, without all of us being represented?</div>
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-66267216979291136202014-08-30T03:57:00.000-04:002014-08-30T03:57:44.461-04:00Autism and GriefYesterday I put to rest my childhood cat, Nibbles. Amongst many things, it has me thinking about grief, and the mourning process.<br />
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When, in reality, it's more of a difference in grieving expression and process. Like all new rhetoric regarding autistic emotions and expressions, this includes grief and mourning. Now, obviously, each person is going to have their own process; what works for me might not work the same way for someone else. However, the stages of grief more or less are the same, and what is the same for everyone is that we all need time and space to process our grief, whether alone or with other people. </div>
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This past month has been busy, and the next month ahead is going to be just as busy, between work, school, research, grant applications, various traveling, and moving into a new apartment! <br />
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Even before April was known to me as Autism Awareness/Acceptance Month, it's been a bad month for me; it's the month that mental health issues just get triggered a lot. And this year has been a bad year. So I turned off my email client (I have over 10 email addresses, by the way) to manage the stress of apartment hunting, work, health issues, and just plain Autism month stuff. <br />
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Since April isn't Autism Awareness month in Canada, although some of it has been creeping through via the sponsors of Autism Speaks, I also don't have much incentive to be active unless I have the spoons to do so, mostly online. So when I checked my email at the end of the month (wow, over a thousand email messages), it was no surprise that there was quite a few April Autism Awareness specific ones for this blog, wanting to be quest interviews, for me to review books, cover certain questionable stories, etc. <br />
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The fun part is that most of the people approaching me are approaching me with stories that I will never, ever cover. Yay, you're publishing another book about raising your autistic child. That's not something I cover. There are plenty of people who have written about raising us, what about autistics raising autistic children?<br />
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I get quack treatments and stories that are highly questionable, like ECT (electroshock) to treat autism (by the way, that's medical malpractice, if not outright abuse), and if anyone had done their homework and realized that I'm on the side trying to get the Judge Rotenburg Center closed down and know my Mad People's History, they would know not to even email me. <br />
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In the meanwhile, there are things like health, both physical and mental. I won't go into details, but even the small things can wear you down. Shifts in something here and there can have great impacts later on. And then sudden things that happen all at once, but then the effects don't go away. <br />
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I called this post transitions, cause I wanted to talk a bit about my moving. It's a big transition. I've been living in the same place for four years, the longest outside of living with my family. The house I'm in is run by a non-profit organization, for people with developmental disabilities, with mental health issues, and with addiction issues, and those who would just be otherwise homeless. <br />
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Housing is set up in area of needed support. So it's also considered supported housing, from more group home settings, to my level, which is the highest independent level they have. We have a case worker assigned to us, to call if we need anything, a 24 hour line, maintenance crew (dependability depends on priority; been waiting four years for all of my windows to be totally fixed; non-profit = not a lot of money for fixing things), but otherwise left alone to handle ourselves. If we wanted to, we can all chip in for a cleaning lady once a month, but generally people are capable of handling chores. <br />
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My experiences in the house have varied depending on my housemates. I used to have to lock my fridge and cupboards until a housemate was finally evicted (four years, still haven't gotten compensation for what she admitted stealing; hey let's talk about how the law isn't always on your side if you're disabled). But also not so bad ones; I've learned to take care of myself, how to read body language better (I hope) and trust my gut about people. <br />
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I started this post in the beginning of the month, and now it's in the middle. But I've outgrown my current living situation, and am moving onto a new place, my first apartment, a one-bedroom unit situated perfectly for me to get to work, social groups and services that I need. Perfect for the long term, people might think, right? Most adult support services will be satisfied that this is the end-goal, that the rest is daily living, to continue with my job, my friends, maybe work more and get me off social assistance.<br />
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But it's not enough for me, cause you know what, development doesn't stop. Life transitions don't stop. And I got my own plans. This is my own place, for me to spend some time on my own. My little bachelorette, if you will, before getting hitched. <br />
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And I know that adult support services aren't prepared, or at least aren't always prepared for clients who needs supports through marriage, and child birth, and childcare and child raising, and buying a house. But they really should because after all, don't they know that people are a spectrum? </div>
Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-1756139401400598022013-11-01T16:00:00.000-04:002013-11-01T16:00:02.045-04:00Let's Talk About The AODA<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm finding that people inside and outside Ontario don't know what the AODA is, and especially Ontarians, that's not good, cause the AODA is a big thing. I'm taking a course on it right now, so here's what I got so far. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">AODA stands for the Accessibility for Ontarians with Disabilities Act (2005). It will eventually replace the also-in-effect Ontarians with Disabilities Act (2001), which applies only to making government accessible. The AODA affects not just the government, but everywhere else. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The goal of the AODA is to make Ontario completely accessible (or as reasonably accessible as possible) by the year 2025 in customer service, employment, information and communication, built environments, and transportation. This includes the public sector (government, education, medical, religious organizations) and private sector (businesses). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Basically, the government of Ontario recognizes that 1 in 7 Ontarians are disabled (approximately 1.7 million Ontarians) and that this number will rise in years to come. Especially with the aging population, it's been estimated that about 60% of the population will be disabled. And the province needs to be accessible, to follow human rights, equality, participation of citizens and to change perceptions on disability. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">What's exciting about the AODA is that it was created by non-political people, people who usually don't get involved with government and it was unanimously passed by government. It is legislation from the people, rather than from the government. It takes the burden of accessibility off the disabled (in theory), and makes it an issue of the province. So instead of having to fight for Accessibilty case by case, violations of the AODA are seen as a crime against the province and the province is responsible for pursuing crimes of inaccessibility. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">So how is this suppose to work? Well, there are five committees, for transportation, employment, customer service, information and communication, and built environments. These committees release standards that various businesses and organizations have to meet by certain time periods. For example, just this year, the standards for large businesses and non-profits came into effect. They have to meet these standards, or, failing an inspection or non-compliance, face a fine of $50,000. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Smaller businesses have more time to comply, but there's still arguments saying that the government should help them to achieve accessibility on time. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">But part of compliance is to submit a report, I believe every five years, the same way that the standards are reviewed and renewed every five years. But this is why you'll see hospitals, schools, and businesses releasing accessibility plans on their websites in Canada; it's part of the AODA that they have this information available to the public. They also are responsible for training their staff. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Municipalities with populations over 10,000, and places that want to, are required to have an accessible advisory committee. These people advises the municipality on leases, purchases, constructions, and renovations of buildings the city is in charge of, and to review the plans and drawings of development projects. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">There is also an Accessibility Directorate of Ontario. This person is in charge of accessibility in public education. I'm not entirely sure how they are suppose to work yet, to be perfectly honest. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Yes, the AODA has some problems. For example, as mentioned in <a href="http://www.mcss.gov.on.ca/documents/en/mcss/accessibility/Charles%20Beer/Charles%20Beer.pdf" target="_blank">the Beer Report (PDF)</a> there are issues with government leadership and involvement, notably with compliance and enforcement. There are also issues with harmonization between the standards, with confusing overlaps and inconsistencies. Think about how transportation and built environments must overlap, or customer service and built environments, or employment and customer service. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Obviously, the AODA isn't in complete effect yet, and what is in effect is not perfect. However, it's suppose to be elections in the next year or so, and this is working to make a difference, not only for current disabled people, but for the future as well. </span></div>
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Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-71687202164725537842013-10-19T12:39:00.001-04:002013-10-19T12:40:19.334-04:00Expanding the Battery Levels<div style="color: #555555; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14px;">
For the past year, I've been working on an app that is based on <a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2009/10/spoons-batteries-and-autism.html" target="_blank">Spoon theory and my connecting it with batteries, Autism</a>, and <a href="http://nostereotypeshere.blogspot.ca/2012/07/expanding-spoons.html" target="_blank">my expansion on spoons</a>. Initially, this started as an assignment for class, but I feel that this can benefit the greater Autistic and Disability community. </div>
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However, I need some feedback, so I need some help from you, dear readers. One of the steps has been to develop stages of the "battery" that drains towards meltdown/distress. What I need is feedback about the definitions of these stages. So, please, read the following, and leave your constructive criticism; meaning, suggestions to make them better. </div>
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<b>Blue</b>: perfectly fine, calm, relaxed, under control and fully recharged, refreshed. Bliss (realistically, this state is probably only achieved for a short period at the beginning of the day, if not in a week. However, while rare, it is achievable, and thus included on the battery chart)</div>
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<b>Green</b>: active and working, but still energetic, managing drain on resources ("spoons"), still collected if not completely relaxed and calm. Go (probably the more realistic starting point for a day, this is what in clinical medical language would be called high-functioning and is the impossible to maintain goal of therapy and interventions. That is to say while it is difficult if not outright impossible for most neurologically typical persons to maintain this level of functioning and stress management, it is not impossible to achieve this for periods of a time. As such, it is included on the battery chart.)</div>
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<b>Yellow</b>: feeling the drain more, needing breaks but managing with self-care skills and sensory management. Ideally, this is the lowest that a person would go on the battery chart. However, life is never ideal. Instead, it is the general goal of the app to build the self awareness of autistic people and others who experience meltdowns, as well as give them the tools to communicate, in order to managed their meltdowns. It is the hopeful goal that in time, they will less likely to past this point. This is the draining, but managing point, where skills and tools are being used at their most and the person is holding on. Probably cannot maintain this stage for too long, but long enough to get what needs to be done and get to a safe spot for decompression. </div>
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<b>Orange</b>: the end of resources and need for considerable time to recharge as soon as possible if not immediately in order to stop a crash and/or meltdown. The person needs to get to a safe spot, because they are running on reserves and feeling overwhelmed. Everything is becoming overloaded and they don't have the emotional, mental, and physical resources to deal with it. At this stage, there is a slim chance of stopping a meltdown into a mild crash, but only if action is taken immediately. </div>
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<b>Red</b>: point of no return. If it hasn't already happened, then a crash or meltdown is going to happen soon and the person is trying to delay it as much as possible, which often only makes it worse. The person needs to go to somewhere safe, to be able to decompression, potentially "regress" and release of emotions and overload. They need to "let off steam" in the way that suits them best, usually left alone, and then be left to fully recharge. This can take a long time, depending on the amount of drain they are experiencing and their personal rate of recharge; downtime/ recharge time should be included on info card. </div>
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Thank you so much for all your assistance! And feel free to spread this around, I want to get a lot of feedback for this. </div>
Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-59524326655532907822013-07-08T00:28:00.000-04:002013-07-08T00:28:10.256-04:00Conferences and Awards<span style="font-size: large;">Hello all, sorry I've been so quiet. I've been studying, and then taking things easy to recuperate and prepare. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This July, I'll be in Pittsburgh, PA, for the<a href="http://www.autism-society.org/get-involved/conference/new-this-year.html" target="_blank"> 44th Annual Autism Society Conference</a>, giving a presentation as part of the Autism Women's Network* on needs and issues of autistic women throughout the lifespan. While the conference runs July 10-13, our talk will be Friday, July 12 at 1:45 - 3:00, in conference room 303. We're very pleased to see that membership for the conference for autistic persons is free and that interaction badges are available. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">At the same time that the conference is happening, I've been selected to receive the <a href="http://www.ryerson.ca/ds/for-students/awards.html#owen" target="_blank">Bill & Lucille Owen Award in Public Policy at Ryerson University Disability Studies</a>. I won't be able to receive the award in person during the ceremony on Tuesday, since I'll be on a plane to the conference, but I'm told that everyone at my department is excited for me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm just amused that I applied for one award, and was selected for a totally different one. But it will definitely help pay for school in the next year. Aaaah, it takes some of the burden off to know that I got the award, and since I just sent in my course selections, I'm looking forward to the Fall!! </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But yes, I hope to see people at the conference next week!! </span>Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-86875327133638525252013-04-02T09:00:00.000-04:002013-04-02T09:00:02.390-04:00What's the Point of World Autism Awareness?Autism awareness, I have to ask, what are you doing it for? What is your point? In the words of many a university professor, so what? <br />
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If you’re doing it because it’s the “right thing to do” or the cause of the month, because it gives you a warm fuzzy feeling and a pat on the back, just stop. Especially if you’re cutting off and silencing Autistic people. Stop, and pick a different cause. Thanks, but no thanks. We don’t need no crocodile tears, no false allies distracting the world from what really needs happening. <br />
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Go find yourself a cause that affects you personally, or learn what’s truly important about autism awareness. <br />
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I’ll tell you a secret, or rather, not a secret, if you’d pay attention. It’s not actually about the autism awareness. Oh sure, increased awareness seems good, less of us slipping through the cracks, more of us figuring out who we are earlier, how to function, how to navigate the turbulent and disabling seas of society. <br />
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But there’s a down side too. It means THEY can find us, the bigots, the bullies, our rapists, abusers and murderers. You think I’m joking? You think I’m being over dramatic?<br />
The statistics say otherwise. In violent crimes involving autistic people, autistic people are mainly the victims. In general, disabled people are ten times more likely to be victims of violent crimes than non-disabled people, ten times, with just the crimes that are reported. Studies have noted that disabled people often have no confidence in the police and the justice system, so crimes they face are often not reported. <br />
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At least ten times. Think of the statistics on rape, on violent crimes, on murder. At least ten times more likely. You should feel sick.<br />
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Awareness is not enough. Allies is not enough. What is the point?<br />
The point?<br />
The point is this: I think, therefore I am. <br />
I am a human being. I am Autistic. <br />
I am an Autistic person. <br />
The point is that as a human being, as an Autistic person, I have rights. Human rights. Disability rights. Autism rights. <br />
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I refuse to add the “self” to advocate, to my activism, because I am not advocating just for myself, but for every Autistic person alive, now and future generations. For our rights as humans, our rights as Autistic humans.<br />
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So what? What’s the point? <br />
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The point is that without acceptance, without human rights, autism awareness is worthless. You may not like each and every one of us personally, but we have human rights. And it is my right, as a human being, as an Autistic person, to decide my own future. My future, my choice. <br />
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Nothing about us, without us.<br />
It’s as simple as that. <br />
At the front of any conversation regarding Autistic lives should be Autistic people. It is our lives, after all, that are ultimately affected by any decision. We are then supported by any support staff, family members, caregivers, professionals, academics. Scientists may research merrily, but when it comes to affecting our lives directly, we have the final say. Our lives, our choice. <br />
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So the point? It’s not autism awareness, it’s Autistic awareness. <br />
Here we are. This is what we want. Our rights. Our lives. Ours. <br />
Ours. Period. Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-72359970812482096412013-02-23T10:43:00.002-05:002013-02-23T10:43:46.375-05:00Autistic People Should<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Autistic People Should is TODAY</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">A flash blog event reacting to the negative auto-fill when one searches "Autistic people should" and "Autistic people are". </span><br />
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I have my <a href="http://nekobakaz.tumblr.com/" target="_blank">tumblr</a>, and my <a href="https://twitter.com/CorinaBecker" target="_blank">twitter</a>. Corina Beckerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04026707230826401476noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3967073850231837312.post-32080092096255460632012-11-05T12:17:00.003-05:002012-11-05T12:17:34.225-05:00Goal Reached!<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">My ChipIn goal has been reached!</span><br />
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